Your wedding is one of the most important and special days of your life, however it can also be the most stressful. With a massive to do list and last-minute issues cropping up, you may find yourself at your wit’s end. Thankfully a wedding celebrant can help negate some of these problems.
In this article I discuss a few things that can make the lead up to your wedding a much more worry-free event.
Book as Early as Possible
If you are considering booking a civil celebrant, it is best to do it as soon as you can. Wedding Celebrant’s diaries are filling quickly and with people delaying their weddings due to COVID-19, the industry is expecting a surge within the next two years. It’s best to get that date locked in straight away so that you can begin planning the rest of your wedding with some peace of mind.
Uniqueness
One of the best things about working with a civil celebrant is that you have complete freedom to create the perfect wedding ceremony for you and your partner. Take this opportunity to craft something personal that reflects your story. Don’t be afraid if you are feeling overwhelmed with the possibilities, a celebrant can guide you. Before you know it, you will have the perfect plan for both you and your wedding.
Mixing It Up
Working with a celebrant is a great alternative to a church wedding but it doesn’t mean that you can’t include some traditional or spiritual aspects that you find meaningful. Using a civil celebrant means there are no rules or restrictions which makes it great for couples who want to add handfasting elements, unity candles or anything else your heart desires.
Wedding Vows
This can perhaps be the most stressful part of planning your wedding. With everything else going on, it can be hard to find the time to memorise the vows you have written. This aspect of the ceremony can cause additional anxiety as not everyone is comfortable with public speaking.
During the wedding ceremonies I conduct, I always laminate a copy of both sets of vows and hand them to the couple at the appropriate time. This way if you feel a bit nervous the paper doesn’t flap if your handshakes and it also ensures that no one else has caught sight of the vows before they are read.
This way you can take your time, telling your partner how much they mean to you without the fear of forgetting the words.
Creative Support
If you’re feeling a little lacking in the creative department, a civil celebrant can be a great sounding board for anything you’re unsure about. Remember your celebrant has officiated many weddings prior to yours, they have a wealth of knowledge and experience that you can tap into. All you have to do is ask.
